Vitalis
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Last Updated: September 19th, 2021
Hi! My online alias is Vitalis.
You may previously know me as Epith, or you might still call me by my nickname Em.
Pronouns are she/her but I don't care if you use any others. Same goes for using character names instead of my own. Whatever works!
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I am a college student that draws & writes with spare time. Discord is my main method of communication and I moderate various servers.
If you have this carrd then you are likely someone I trust and consider a close friend of. Thank you for helping me grow as a person.
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Circumstantial Notice: I am dealing with a traumatic eye injury that was previously infected which resulted in emergency surgery. I am in constant pain thanks to this and the recovery time is unknown.
This might explain bad eyesight, sudden absences, longer reply times, or exhaustion on my part. I'm giving it my best fight but needless to say some days are better than others.
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If I may trouble you, please look through this carrd. I know I can be brutally honest and hard to approach so I am hoping this carrd can provide some insight as to why.
Onwards!
This section is detailed on purpose. I apologize if it's long and a drag to get through but this is important. None of these are a slight against anyone specific.
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Do not lie. I go out of my way to be honest & disclose transparency when I can. I would like that same respect to be returned no matter how ugly or terrible the truth is. That being said, if you need my honest opinion on anything I will give it to you.
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I can't fix what I don't know. If I do something that hurts you in any way no matter how big or small PLEASE tell me. You are important to me and I want to right any wrongs or clear up any misunderstandings as they occur.
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I do not act out of malicious intent. If I hurt you PLEASE let me know for it is never intentional.
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I will not participate in any drama related group chats. I learned my lesson years ago when I let my emotions get the best of me. I said terrible things about people I cared for and I haven't made that mistake since. If you have issues with other members of the community do not drag me into it.
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I will call out hypocritical actions. We all accidentally do this sometimes, but if you hate it when something is done to you, you shouldn't turn around and do it to someone else. If I call you out on this it's coming from a good place. Please call me out if I do the same.
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Do not contact me if I blocked you. I carefully consider any potential blocks and this can take a long time. If I make the decision to block you do not go through mutual friends to reach me. It's best that we go our separate ways.
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Do not act passive agressive towards me. If you have a problem I will gladly have a grown up conversation with you. Acting passive aggressive is a waste of time and its rather exhausting.
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Please don't send me NSFW or private DM RP requests. Not a fan of NSFW and I don't like RP to clutter DMs.
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Let me know if I am being obnoxious. I tend to get excited over things I like. If I find information that can benefit you, I want to share it with you! However, I realized lately I can be a bit annoying with it, so let me know when I need to back off.
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I will not talk about politics. We all have our passionate views so let's leave it at that.
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I will not question the validity or severity of anyone's personal struggles. However, it doesn't give you or anyone an excuse to treat others terribly. I will do my best not to take my frustrations out on you, so don't take out your frustrations on me. If we need to have a grown up chat let's have one!
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Do not ask for admin related favors. I moderate a few servers and I wish to participate in them like everyone else. I will not be making special exceptions. Additionally, if you need server related assistance please use the ticket system in the desired server.
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I don't ignore on purpose. If this happens it's usually an accident or my eyes hurt too much to respond right away. I'm usually pretty good about this but please be patient if you need me to respond to you!
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Criticisms aren't made in malice. If I am discussing a show or piece of media I do my best to give constructive criticism. I never intend to hurt the feelings of those who like it, or those who don't. As an aspiring story writer I find it fun to look into plots and how they can be improved upon.
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From now on I will not mention any worries of mine. If you have a concern or want my opinion over a worrying topic you will need to approach me first. Only then will I engage in such conversations.
I still care and will be keeping an eye out for you all, but I want our conversations to be mostly good vibes.
I don't plan on engaging with the following topics. It's not that I don't care, but rather I would like to prevent certain headaches if possible.
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Politics. As mentioned before I won't participate in conversations surrounding politics.
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Sexuality. I support sexuality of all kinds, but I've been given trouble for being straight.. I just don't want to talk about it anymore.
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Any Shipping Drama. Nope. I'm too old to deal with that.
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RWBY. I think this show is so much fun but the fans have admittedly made it feel like walking on glass when talking about the show.
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Danganronpa. This series brought me so much joy but also painful memories. It's a mixed bag.
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Attack on Titan. Whether its alleged or confirmed, I am not comfortable supporting the creator with what I know now. The OP and ED songs are fantastic though.
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Genshin Impact. I love this game but I won't be engaging with it whenever people are bragging about gacha pulls. Not everyone has the money or time to get the gems they need.
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I am happy to chat via DM over series, media, or fun things! I love to share things like videos and nice artwork I find too. If you find this annoying don't be afraid to let me know.
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Comfort Series
Media that I find comforting or that I really adore.
✧ Inuyasha
✧ Fruits Basket
✧ Shirayuki
✧ Studio Ghibli
✧ To Your Eternity
✧ Kagerou Project
✧ Re:Zero
✧ Shelter
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Comfort Characters
Characters that I adore & want good things for.
✧ 25th Baam, Khun Aguero Agnis
✧ Tohru, Kyo, Yuki, Machi
✧ Shirayuki, Zen, Obi
✧ Venti, Chongyun, Kazuha, Xingqiu
✧ Fushi, Nameless Boy
✧ Marry, Seto, Ayano
✧ Emilia, Reinhard, Theresia
That's it for now until I update more series.
Thank you for taking the time to review this carrd. I really appreciate it, and I hope this clears some things up about how I intend to carry myself online.
Please take care of yourselves and the people around you. Even the smallest of gestures can go the furthest distance.
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"Destiny takes us along to meet the most unexpected of people, and they leave a lasting impression in the depths of our hearts."